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Book Details:
Book Title: Reflections on the Nature of Friendship
Author: Daniel Cantor Yalowitz, Ed.D.
Category: Adult Non-Fiction (18+), 336 pages
Genre: Psychology, Self-Help
Publisher: Booksmyth
Release date: Feb 2021
Formats Available: print-softback, ebook
Content Rating: G. No bad language, sex scenes, or anything objectionable
Book Description:
Reflections on the Nature of Friendship is a rich, nuanced journey that delves deeply into the fascinating and complex world of friendship. Psychologist and world-traveler Dr. Daniel Cantor Yalowitz takes readers on a carefully narrated tour into the heart of what human beings need and bring to their chosen relationships. Reflections examines what makes friendships work, thrive, and connect people with one another. Using quotes across place, time, and culture, this book includes salient and seminal chapters on Identity, Longing and Belonging, Boundaries, and more, including three case studies that explore primary friendships within the author’s life. Using examples from literature, poetry, film, and music,Dr. Yalowitz brings deeper understanding about building stronger, healthier, and sustainable friendships.
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Reflections on the Nature of Friendship is a deeper and more scholarly work than I had expected. Daniel Cantor Yalowitz explores the concept of friendship in all its aspects giving illustrative examples from his own experience as well as quoting a number of other astute sources on the subject from Rumi to Jane Austen. I appreciated how each chapter focused on a different theme and, rather than reading straight through at my usual rapid pace, I found it more helpful to take a break between chapters. This allowed me time to fully contemplate the thoughts Yalowitz stirred up. The chapter about befriending oneself rang particularly true as, personally, I find it easier to reach out and to interest myself in others since undertaking work to truly understand myself.
I have certainly found myself seeing my own friendships in a different light as a result of reading this wonderfully insightful book. In fact I was prompted to write to a neglected friend as soon as I finished the book, Yalowitz's thoughts on how some friendships survive over periods of inactivity and others don't spurring me to not risk losing that particular connection through my own inactivity. I think Reflections on the Nature of Friendship is a book to savour and to work through. Yalowitz includes various simple exercises at certain points and I envisage returning to them again in months or years as a way to gauge my own path. His advocacy of practices such as meditation and tai chi reminded me that I meant to look into these further after reading Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche and am still to do so.
I think Reflections on the Nature of Friendship would be an invaluable read for people who want a deeper understanding of the psychological and emotional responses underpinning human friendships, especially in situations where we find ourselves repeating negative patterns or feeling at a loss for how to repair a valued friendship that seems to be running our of steam. It is an excellent resource also for pre-emptive understanding of the mechanics of this most fundamental of human needs, one which is more often taken for granted than fully appreciated.
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